How does your hair connect to your culture or your identity?

My hair connects to my identity because my friends and family members recognize me by my hair. My hair is often frizzy looking which makes my hair look different even if it's combed or done. Multiple times my hair has made me feel misunderstood and uncomfortable because many times people have told me "your hair looks so messy and un-brushed..". My hair is always brushed and taken care of but I'm not sure why it looks and gets frizzy no matter what I do. Though my hair has made me uncomfortable and misunderstood, it is still a big part of my identity and the way people know me. 


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